“SHE WAS ACTUALLY RELIEVED I BROUGHT IT UP!"
“We had stopped having sex 5 years ago and never talked about it. It became this big elephant in the room. I didn't know how to bring it up, and I didn't want to pressure her. This whole program has been so eye opening. I started listening more and really trying to see things from her perspective. Because I built that trust, when I brought up sex, she was actually relieved. She wanted to talk about it, too, and now we are being completely open about what happened and on the same page that we want sex to be a part of our lives.”
Here's the truth:
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It takes two to tango. There are two people in your sex life, and you can’t change much without your partner involved.
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But your partner may already have made it clear they don’t want to deal with your sex life.
How are you going to make anything better if your partner won’t talk about this or do anything?
this is fixable
Imagine for just a moment
...that your partner looked forward to bedtime (instead of that awkward tension and open question of maybe tonight)...
...you and partner share a genuine, knowing smile with each other when a sex scene comes on TV (instead of that cringe because of the elephant in the room)...
...the two of you can be playful and flirtatious in the kitchen (without that fear that it might lead to more)...
...You could have the closeness and connection that comes from a strong sex life just 60 days from RIGHT NOW!
Wouldn’t that be nice?
Well, you don’t have to “imagine” any longer. Because... it’s here.
Introducing
The Entice Your Partner Program
The Simple Step-by-Step Process for getting your partner to work with you to improve your sex life , or your money back!
- Detailed Training That Guides You Through the Process of Approaching Your Partner in a way that Enthusiastically Gets Them On Board!
- Journal Questions and Activities for Connecting as a Couple and Building Emotional Intimacy!
- Action Steps to Preparing For and Having the Conversation That Will Make Sex a Safe and Approachable Topic for Your Partner!
- A Completely New Approach to Sex and Desire That Means There is No Failure!
Here's what you'll learn
See what's waiting for you when you become a member
employ the most powerful communication tools
Effective Communication: How you can both feel heard
I get it, you've tried talking about this before and it hasn't gone well.
Most bedroom burdened couples avoid the conversation about sex entirely, talk over each other, or escalate into conflict. It doesn't have to be that way.
Think about it! Communication is a skill. You can learn the tools that allow you to fully express your feelings and desires and know that your partner is truly hearing you. And you can do that for them, as well.
That's why we dive deep into the tools you need to transform how the two of you talk about sex..
So how do you put these ideas into practice in your actual life? In your actual relationship?!
- The most important thing you need to understand about seeing each other's perspectives
- The most effective ways to overcome the triggers that escalate tension
- The most important thing no one told you about the pursuit of the last word
- How to be responsible for your own emotional regulation
Your partner probably needs to feel connected before they want sex
Emotional Connection: Build intimacy with your partner
Life's paradox! One person typically feels connected through sex, and other needs to feel connected before they're even open to having sex. In this section...
YOU'LL LEARN EXACTLY HOW TO BUILD THE EMOTIONAL INTIMACY YOUR PARTNER NEEDS SO THEY CAN MOVE FORWARD ON YOUR SEX LIFE!
- THE MOST EFFECTIVE WAY TO UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER'S NEEDS
so that you're doing the things that make a difference - HOW YOUR EFFORTS SO FAR ARE KEEPING YOU STUCK
and what to do instead - THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF INTIMACY that allows both of you to feel close and connected
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…AND MORE!
differences in desire are universal; they don't have to be a problem
Desire Discrepancy: Learn how to navigate your differences seamlessly
“You each have different levels of libido, right?!”
There is always one person more interested in sex than the other, at least over time.
Think about it! Why would any two people want exactly the same amount of sex? Believe it or not, this difference does not have to cause stress or tension.
That's why we've given you a complete understanding of exactly how desire discrepancy can cause problems...and what to do instead.
- The 3 most powerful truths about desire discrepancy that determine whether it's a problem
- The most effective ways to bridge your differences
- The most important thing no one told you about taking your partner's lack of desire personally
get clear how this shows up in your relationship
Your Dance Around Intimacy: Change your steps
It's an unspoken dance! You and your partner have unique, and largely unspoken, ways of deciding to have sex and not have sex. And because so much of it is not spoken, it tends to become unhelpful and stuck. In this section...
I’LL HELP YOU UNCOVER THE WAYS YOU CAN BE MORE DIRECT AND MORE EFFECTIVE IN YOUR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS
- EXAMINE WHO INITIATES SEX AND HOW
and learn why this leads to "no" so often - IDENTIFY THE PATTERNS THAT MAKE SEX FEEL MECHANICAL OR BORING
and how to shake up the status quo so it's more interesting for both of you - DISCOVER YOUR STEPS IN THE DANCE
and how to change them to get a different outcome - PRE-EMPATHIZE WITH YOUR PARTNER so you put them at ease and dissolve their defensiveness
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…AND MORE!
take up the topic in a way that makes it easy
Approach Your Partner: Make it easy to talk about sex
“I'm afraid of making things worse!”
Sex is one of the toughest topics for couples to discuss, at least when it's not going so well.
You need a way to bring up the topic and talk about it that puts your partner at ease, that doesn't make them feel worse, that doesn't just make them defensive or shut down.
That's why we coach you through what to say to get your partner to be open to this topic. So ultimately, they're going to easily decide to work on improving your sex life together.
You will get:
- The exact things to say to reach your partner and have them be receptive
- The most effective ways to lower their defensiveness
- The most important thing no one talks about when your partner shuts down or won't talk to you about sex
Don't keep putting this off
So Let Me Help You Decide To Invest In Your Relationship
If you were going to come to an in person workshop with me to learn these exact same strategies, you'd pay close to $5000. Even my clients in my sex therapy practice pay over $200 per hour to get the same information.
When You Enroll in Entice Your Partner, You’re Getting The Culmination of More Than a Decade of Sex Therapy Experience With Hundreds of Couples! Because I understand what your Lower Desire Partner is going through, I can help you reach them.
Entice Your Partner is normally just $997. However, because you're reading this, I've decided to take more than 50% off the price for an investment of just $497 (or 3 installments of $197)!
THE MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
That Lets You Sleep Easily At Night!
The fact that you’re reading this section means you already know giving your sex life some attention will improve your relationship, but perhaps you still have a bit of doubt. Hesitation. Risk. I get it. Like…
"This sounds too good to be true! How am I supposed to know this is really what I need?”
Well… that’s simple. Try it.
Guarantee:
Test-Drive The Program for 30 Days
Sign up and dive in. We want you to be satisfied with your purchase, but we also know that your success will hinge on whether you put in the work necessary to succeed. If after the first 30 days and finishing the first module, you feel as though I haven't provided the actionable ideas, structure, and insight that are the roadmap to easy intimacy, I will happily refund your money in full.
Just email me within the first 30 days of signing up (ending at 11:59 PM Pacific time) and provide proof of your work. i will provide a full refund. This is my guarantee to you.
And there is more!
When you enroll, you'll also get these awesome bonuses:
Bonus #1
Group Coaching Calls
Imagine just how much easier it will be to know how to approach your partner if you can get support along the way. That's why I'm including three months of group coaching calls at no extra charge:
- ASK QUESTIONS AND GET DIRECT FEEDBACK in these online sessions that are only available to students in the program
- SUBMIT QUESTIONS IN ADVANCE and watch the recordings if you can't be there live
- GET THE HELP YOU NEED TO KEEP GOING instead of getting derailed if you hit a bump in the road
Bonus #2
The Intimacy with Ease Couples Course
What if I included my online course for couples that takes you step-by-step through a process to totally change your sex life? That’s exactly what we’ve done with this $997 gift... yours free!
Once your partner is on board, you need a way to now work together to overcome desire discrepancy, take the stress out of sex, and make this just another enjoyable part of your relationship. You get to:
- Access Desire
Even when someone has seemed to have little to no libido, there is a way to actually want to be sexually intimate. You'll learn exactly how to do this. - Eliminate Pressure
Nothing kills your sex life faster than feeling like you can fail. You get everything you need to make sex light and easy and failure-proof! - Co-create enjoyment
Use these hands on exercises to practice all you learn, integrate all these concepts, and create lasting change, not just temporary improvement.
you'll receive instant access
So, Let's Recap
When you join Entice Your Partner, you'll receive instant access to everything you need to talk to your partner effectively so they want to join you in the process of making your sex life so much better! Including...
- The Essential Training Modules that walk you through communication, emotional intimacy, preparing to change your role in the dance, and how to approach your partner so that any resistance or defensiveness melts away!
- Real World Reflections and Action Steps for creating lasting transformation!
- Three Months of Coaching Calls so you can ask questions and get feedback as you bring this up with your partner.
- Emotional Intimacy Building Conversations and Activities to make sure you're tending to the emotional needs of your partner so they are willing to work with you on sex.
- And much, more more!
Deciding to improve your sex life is aimed at one thing:
Creating Your Best Possible Relationship
Think about it! Every great change or transformation you’ve experienced ALWAYS began with a DECISION. Have you ever considered that one of the biggest reasons your sex life is struggling is because you have been unable to make a decision and BACK that decision with committed action?!
I want to give you the opportunity to CHOOSE! Choose to solve this problem or not. Choose to let more time go by - with more hard feelings for both you AND your partner - or...
...Choose to tackle this head on as an investment in your own well-being and the strength of your relationship!
But CHOOSE Quickly!
We are only offering this 50% Discount for a few short days, which means you need to act now to get the savings. Which means there has never been a better time than Right Now to get started!
But if you put this off, what will change? Don’t wait! You can get started today!
Join Now & Create The Fun and Easy Sex Life Your Relationship Deserves!
ENROLL NOW →“WE'RE ON THE SAME PAGE, WE'RE SUPPORTING EACH OTHER!"
“Whenever I used to try to talk about sex, we'd end up in a fight, or at least with tension. I admit, I used to get frustrated, and I was so focused on my own disappointment. This program has shown me how much I was missing about my partner's experience, and it's totally changed how I show up. Now, we've been talking and feel like we're on the same page, like we're supporting each other.”
This is for you if:
- You're in an otherwise happy relationship but somehow sex has become the problem
- You want the very best relationship with your partner that you can have
- You want to work on this as a team with your partner; you want to do your part to make things better
This is not for you if:
- Your relationship needs a lot of work before you can even address sex
- You don't care about whether your partner is happy or not
- You just want your partner to change and aren't willing to look at how you contribute to the problematic dynamics
Frequently Asked Questions
What makes students who have taken the course successful?
Shouldn't sex be natural if you're with the right person?
My partner is struggling with (insert: pain, sexual dysfunction, chronic illness). Will this course work for me?
What can I expect when I join?
Can I get a refund if I'm not happy?
How long do I have access to the course?
When are the coaching calls?
I'm here to help
My Name is Jessa
I help people who long to share a great sex life with their partner, but who find themselves feeling distant, disconnected, anxious or at odds about sex instead because they've struggled with desire discrepancy.
I’ve taken everything I’ve learned as an AASECT certified sex therapist and the experiences I’ve had working with hundreds and hundreds of couples over the years to craft a program to help you transform your sex life into something you both look forward to.
My courses are not just a description of the problem and what’s got you stuck; they are implementation programs that walks you through a process where you can change your experience.
Yes, you’ll learn about myths and mindsets that will reframe sex for you, but you’ll also go through a step by step process to have the conversations that matter, to identify what you each need to change, and to practice these changes so they become integrated into your sex life.
The end result: ease and joy in your sex life that will help you adapt to any challenges you face now or in the future.
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