It’s Not About Having More Sex, It's About Both of You Wanting It, Right?!



The Simple Step-by-Step Process for taking the stress out of your sex life, or your money back!


It’s Not About Having More Sex, It's About Both of You Wanting It, Right?!



The Simple Step-by-Step Process for taking the stress out of your sex life, or your money back!




“This program took our sex life to the next level. We're in a significantly better place as a couple! This year we added 'Jessa' to our family tradition Thanksgiving tree because we're so grateful we found you.”


Here's the truth:

  • In a great relationship, both people are happy.
  • If you're experiencing stress of tension about what's happening (not not happening!) in your sex life, at least one of you is not happy about how things are.

How are you going to have a truly great relationship if your sex life isn't working for both of you?


your sex life can thrive

Imagine for just a moment that you both look forward to bedtime

... (instead of that awkward tension and open question of maybe tonight)... and partner share a genuine, knowing smile with each other when a sex scene comes on TV (instead of that cringe because of the elephant in the room)...

...the two of you can be playful and flirtatious in the kitchen (without that fear that it might lead to more)...

...You could have the closeness and  connection that comes from a strong sex life just 60 days from RIGHT NOW!


Wouldn’t that be nice?

Well, you don’t have to “imagine” any longer. Because... it’s here.


The Intimacy With Ease Program

The Simple Step-by-Step Process for taking the stress out of your sex life, or your money back!


  • Detailed Training That Guides You Through the Process of Identifying and Eliminating Barriers to Desire!


  • Journal Questions and Activities for Connecting as a Couple and Letting Desire Emerge!


  • Action Steps to Discover, Honor, and Empower What Would Make Sex Engaging for Both of You!


  • A Completely New Approach to Sex and Desire That Means There is No Failure!

Here's what you'll learn

See what's waiting for you when you become a member

Approach your partner so that the two of you are on the same page

Entice Your Partner: Get on the Same Team as Your Partner

Solve this together! We need skills to have constructive conversations about hard topics. You need to invite your partner into this process in the right way so you work together toward a mutually fulfilling sex life. In this section...


    and how to use them to increase good will and cooperation
    and how to choose what parts still serve you and what parts you can release
    in order to make sex something you can both look forward to
  • …AND MORE!

uncover the hidden doorway to desire

Access Desire: Create the Path to Both of You Wanting Sex

“It’s Not About Having More Sex, It's About Both of You Wanting It, Right?!”

Having sex just for your partner only increases the sense that it's a chore.

Think about it! Do you want to be having sex only to meet the needs of one you while the other isn't really into it? No! You need a plan to help both of you actually want to be physically intimate!

That's why we dive deep into different ways to access "inside out" desire.

So how do you put these ideas into practice in your actual life? In your actual relationship?!

  • The most important thing you need to understand about how sexual desire actually works
  • The most effective ways to overcome the obstacles that block desire
  • The most important thing no one told you about the burden of expectations
  • How to be responsible for your own pleasure
Build success into your sex life from the ground up

Eliminate Pressure: Take All the Stress Off Your Sex Life

You cannot fail! We need to remove all the things that create pressure and high stakes in our sex life in order for it to be fun and easy. In this section...


    so that both of you can look forward to it
    and what to do instead
  • THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF SEX that allows both of you to enjoy it every time
  • …AND MORE!

Work as a team to totally transform your sex life

Co-Create Enjoyment: Make Sex Fun & Easy For Both of You

“It’s Not Enough to Change How You Think About Sex… it’s Gotta Be Applied in Real Life, Right?!”

Change does not happen from insight alone. We also have to learn to behave differently, to do things differently. That's the beauty of the Intimacy With Ease Program - you get real world activities and exercises to implement everything you learn!

Think about it! Do you learn to ride a bike by reading about it? Journaling about it? No! You need a plan to bring this knowledge into your reality!

That's why we've given you real world steps to take to solidify the changes you want to make.

Do you want to get part way through and then stop right before you're about to have a breakthrough? Of course not!

So how do you put these ideas into practice in your actual life? In your actual relationship?!

  • The 3 most powerful exercise you can use to take the stress out of sex
  • The most effective ways to look forward to sex
  • The most important thing no one told you about the upside of being selfish 
  • How to increase the spark in your sex life

Don't keep putting this off

So Let Me Help You Decide To Invest In Your Relationship


If you were going to come to an in person workshop with me to learn these exact same strategies, you'd pay close to $5000. Even my clients in my sex therapy practice pay over $200 per hour to get the same information.

When You Enroll in Intimacy With Ease, You’re Getting The Culmination of More Than a Decade of Sex Therapy Experience With Hundreds of Couples! 

Intimacy With Ease is normally just $997. However, because you're reading this, I've decided to take more than 50% off the price for my special opportunity investment of just $497 (or 3 installments of $197)!

That Lets You Sleep Easily At Night!

The fact that you’re reading this section means you already know giving your sex life some attention will improve your relationship, but perhaps you still have a bit of doubt. Hesitation. Risk. I get it. Like…

"This sounds too good to be true! How am I supposed to know this is really what I need?”

Well… that’s simple. Try it.


Test-Drive The Program for 30 Days

Sign up and dive in. We want you to be satisfied with your purchase, but we also know that your success will hinge on whether you put in the work necessary to succeed. If after the first 30 days and finishing the first module, you feel as though I haven't provided the actionable ideas, structure, and insight that are the roadmap to easy intimacy, I will happily refund your money in full.

Just email me within the first 30 days of signing up (ending at 11:59 PM Pacific time) and provide proof of your work. i will provide a full refund. This is my guarantee to you.


And there is more!

When you enroll, you'll also get these awesome bonuses:

Bonus #1

Name of bonus

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Bonus #2

Name of bonus

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Bonus #3

Name of bonus

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Bonus #1

The Entice Your Partner Program

What if I had a whole program just to help you talk to your partner about this and get them enthusiastically on board to work on your sex life together? That’s exactly what we’ve done with this $497 gift... yours free!

My team and I developed a whole course that helps you focus on the things you can change that make the topic of sex safe and approachable for your partner. Even if you've given up hope that your partner will come around, this course gives you a whole new way to melt their defensiveness or resistance!

  • The Ultimate Communication skills
    Learn powerful ways to talk about even the hardest subjects so that both of you are heard and understood!
  • Emotional Intimacy and Relationship Health
    Sex happens in the context of your relationship. Make sure yours is running on all cylinders so that any barriers to sex melt away!
  • Change Your Steps
    Understand the dance the two of you have around sex (and not having sex), and identify exactly what you can do differently to change the dynamics.
  • Approach Your Partner
    Learn how to frame this conversation in a way that builds goodwill and makes it easy for them to say yes.

Bonus #2

Live Coaching Support

Imagine just how much easier it will be to improve your sex life and desire when you and your partner can get support as you go through the process! That's why I'm offering THREE months in my coaching membership group at no extra charge (and just $47 per month after that):

  • ASK QUESTIONS AND GET DIRECT FEEDBACK in online sessions that are only available to students in the program.
  • SEPARATE MEETINGS FOR HIGHER DESIRE PARTNERS AND LOWER DESIRE PARTNERS so you can be among others who share your experience.
  • ANONYMOUS Q & A SESSIONS. Submit questions in advance and watch the recordings if you can't be there live
  • GET THE HELP YOU NEED TO KEEP GOING instead of getting derailed if you hit a bump in the road 

Bonus #3

The Emotional Intimacy Bonus Bundle

What if I gathered up all kinds of activities that build emotional intimacy and connection for you? That’s exactly what we’ve done with this $997 gift... yours free!

My team and I have spent weeks collecting the best and most creative conversations, activities, and exercises and have put them together in this bonus bundle for you and your partner!

  • The Ultimate Conversational Prompts
    No more wondering what to talk about that isn't the kids, the weather, or the job!
  • Romance, Romance, Romance
    We've gathered ideas for date night, romantic movies, and thoughtful gestures!
  • Go deeper with these exercises
    Use these tools to explore your values and vision


Taking this course has transformed the way we think about intimacy. We are now able to enjoy each other without putting pressure on ourselves. Connection is now the main goal over a physical outcome. We think of our intimate time together as play now. We are no longer trapped in a cage we built with our own hands.


“I'd had massive guilt around the fact that it was my body that was the problem. I was the reason we couldn't have sex. Even a kiss could lead to a request for sex, but I had such incredible pain. This is such a huge weight off of me, truly a f&#@$ing breakthrough, to find new ways to be sexy together!"

And if you don't want to do this all on your own 

Enhance your experience by adding the extra support available with Deluxe Access!


Don't want to do this all on your own??

You might have questions. You might want to benefit from my input and guidance about your particular situation. You might want private coaching and the ability to get help regularly.

When You Enroll in The Intimacy with Ease Deluxe Package, You Have Support on Your Journey!

You'll get 6 months of direct Voxer support where you can send your recorded questions and get personal responses. You'll also get 2 private coaching calls with me in the first 6 months.

you'll receive instant access 

So, Let's Recap

When you join Intimacy With Ease, you'll receive instant access to everything you need to bridge your desire discrepancy so you can feel totally close, connected, and secure in your relationship! Including...

  • The Essential Training Modules every couple needs in order to create their best possible sex life!
  • Journal prompts for each step of the process to apply the ideas in your life!
  • Real World Exercises and Action Steps for creating lasting transformation!
  • Three Months of Support so you and your partner can successfully apply this process.
  • Emotional Intimacy Building Conversations and Activities to make sure we're not just focusing on sex at the exclusion of your emotional connection.
  • And much, more more!

Which package is right for you? 


Just 3 installments of


(Just $197 Today)


CLICK HERE to Save $94 When You Pay in Full - $497!


One time investment of


(Save $394 by Paying in Full)



Deciding to improve your sex life is aimed at one thing:

Creating Your Best Possible Relationship 


Think about it! Every great change or transformation you’ve experienced ALWAYS began with a DECISION. Have you ever considered that one of the biggest reasons your sex life is struggling is because you have been unable to make a decision and BACK that decision with committed action?!

I want to give you the opportunity to CHOOSE! Choose to solve this problem or not. Choose to let more time go by - with more hard feelings for both you AND your partner - or...

...Choose to tackle this head on as an investment in your own well-being and the strength of your relationship!


But CHOOSE Quickly!


We are only offering this 50% Discount for a few short days, which means you need to act now to get the savings. Which means there has never been a better time than Right Now to get started!

But if you put this off, what will change? Don’t wait! You can get started today!

Join Now & Create The Fun and Easy Sex Life Your Relationship Deserves!



“i was looking for something like this for years. I tried all kinds of things, from woo-woo tantra stuff to run of the mill programs. Yours is so different. The whole system works. It gave me actual steps to take to make easy wins, and it made it easy to talk to my partner and work with him to create a positive cycle.”

Paula achieved other amazing result:

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This is possible for you too.

Your path to your goal

1. Join Course Name

Click the enrollment button and follow the checkout steps. In minutes, you'll get an email will your login details.

2. Dive in and take action

Dive into the content and take action. Can’t start right away? It's okay, you have lifetime access to the course.

3. Reach your goal

Finally feel confident to achieve your goal. From this topic to this topic, you'll learn everything you need to succeed. 


This is for you if:

  • You're in an otherwise happy relationship but somehow sex has become the problem
  • You want the very best relationship with your partner that you can have
  • You want to work on this as a team with your partner; you want to do your part to make things better

This is not for you if:

  • Your relationship needs a lot of work before you can even address sex
  • You don't care about whether your partner is happy or not
  • You just want your partner to change and aren't willing to look at how you contribute to the problematic dynamics

Frequently Asked Questions

I'm here to help

My Name is Jessa

I help people who long to share a great sex life with their partner, but who find themselves feeling distant, disconnected, anxious or at odds about sex instead because they've struggled with desire discrepancy.

I’ve taken everything I’ve learned as an AASECT certified sex therapist and the experiences I’ve had working with hundreds and hundreds of couples over the years to craft a program to help you transform your sex life into something you both look forward to.

Intimacy With Ease is not just a description of the problem and what’s got you stuck; it’s an implementation program that walks you through a process where you can change your experience.

Yes, you’ll learn about myths and mindsets that will reframe sex for you, but you’ll also go through a step by step process to have the conversations that matter, to identify what you each need to change, and to practice these changes so they become integrated into your sex life.

The end result: ease and joy in your sex life that will help you adapt to any challenges you face now or in the future.

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